THE VIRTUES

What Is a Virtue?

Moral excellence. Goodness. Righteousness.

Although Jesus emphasized virtues as expressions of love and the fruit of the Spirit, the virtues are universal in their very nature and are a focus of most of the world’s major religions.

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Original posts from Art Nicklaus.

Authenticity

The virtue of authenticity implies honesty, transparency, and sincerity.

Compassion

Compassion takes feeling sorry for someone to another level.

Confidence

Confidence as a virtue implies “faith or belief that one will act in a wise, proper, or effective way,” even in the midst of hardship and uncertainty.

Contentment

Contentment is a virtue that describes the state of your mind, soul, and spirit.

Contrition

Contrition is the sorrowful regret that reflects true repentance.

Courage

Courage as a virtue means doing the right thing even when faced with apathy, difficulty, opposition, and risk to your reputation.

Dedication

The virtue of dedication implies being all-in, committed to doing the right thing in all places and at all times, regardless of what others might say or do.

Determination

Determination is making a decision, setting the mind, and following through no matter what.

Dignity

Dignity describes us, our very being, when we are living in accordance with the virtues.

Diligence

Diligence means steady, earnest, and energetic effort. It means persevering in the face of adversity and difficulty.

Equanimity

Equanimity means to remain calm, cool, and collected in any circumstance.

Faithfulness

Faithfulness implies unswerving adherence, allegiance, and loyalty to a relationship or a cause.

Forgiveness

The virtue of forgiveness means to extend amnesty, pardon, and mercy without reservation or requirement.

Fortitude

Fortitude is strength of mind, heart, and spirit.

Friendship

A virtuous friend is trustworthy, loyal, and caring.

Generosity

Generosity begins and ends in the spirit and soul.

Gentleness

A gentle person is kind-hearted, peaceful, friendly, helpful, warm, and caring.

Goodness

The virtue of goodness indicates an uprightness of heart and life motivated by kindness and generosity.

Graciousness

Graciousness offers kindness to others.

Gratitude

Gratitude is an awareness of the miracles all around us each day and a thankfulness for life’s many blessings.

Honesty

Honesty is a sister virtue to integrity, truthfulness, transparency, authenticity, goodness, and others.

Honoring

We honor another person when we praise, acknowledge, or reward them for who they are or what they have accomplished.

Hopefulness

To be hopeful is choosing to be cheerful and positive even in difficult circumstances.

Hospitality

To show hospitality is to demonstrate all the virtues in one simple act.

Humility

Humility is freedom from pride or arrogance.

Integrity

Integrity means you have values that run deep and live in accordance with those values.

Joy

Joy is more than happiness—it includes a sense of well-being, a oneness with all creation, and a peace that passes all understanding.

Kindness

Kindness is best described by a combination of other virtues.

Listening

Listening exists on a spectrum.

Love

There are only three things that will last: faith, hope and love.

Loyalty

Loyalty is just one of the virtues particularly marked by beauty.

Merciful

Merciful is defined this way: “treating people with kindness and forgiveness; not cruel or harsh…giving relief from suffering.”

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is life with the eyes of the heart wide open—open to all the possibilities and opportunities each moment brings.

Patience

Patience is not only the ability to wait but the ability to maintain equanimity and embrace delayed gratification while you wait.

Perseverance

Perseverance is to not give up, to never quit.

Perspective

Perspective can mean the difference between confusion and understanding, darkness and light, fear or anger and peace.

Prudence

Prudence involves care, caution, timing, and good judgment, all wrapped up together with wisdom in conducting yourself and your affairs.

Reconciliation

Reconciliation is the noun form of the verb reconcile, which comes from the Latin reconciliāre, meaning to make good again or to repair.

Reliability

Reliability is similar to the virtue of being trustworthy, but it adds the idea of dependability, the trait of being counted on to perform consistently and well.

Respect

Respect begins with simple things like playing nice, sharing with others, and saying please, thank you, and you’re welcome.

Responsibility

Responsibility is “the state or fact of being responsible, answerable, or accountable for something within one’s power, control, or management.”

Restraint

Restraint is understanding that I can, but I must not.

Right Intention

Whenever we begin to do a thing or say something, it is important to begin with the right intention.

Self-Discipline

The virtue of self-discipline is the ability to pursue what you believe is right despite the temptation to ignore or abandon it.

Sense of Wonder

To maintain a sense of wonder is to recognize and acknowledge that life is amazing and wonder-full—all the time.

Servant Heart

You can’t force yourself to have a servant heart, but you can decide to grow one.

Simplicity

It has been said that you may need to be a genius to truly understand the value of simplicity.

Sincerity

Sincerity as a virtue conveys an openness and honesty seldom seen outside of young children.

Transparency

Transparency is the twin virtue to authenticity.

Trustworthy

To be trustworthy is to be dependable, reliable, ethical, responsible, unfailing, and more.

Vulnerability

To make yourself vulnerable is to remove the barriers and walls and just be known for who you truly are.

Wisdom

Wisdom is the ability to think and act by employing knowledge, experience, insight, understanding, and common sense.

Submit your personal story or favorite illustration, quote, Bible verse, etc. that illustrates a specific virtue to [email protected], then click on the virtue of your choice to see your story or the stories and illustrations of others.

October 19, 2021

May 30, 2021

A personal note from the author: 

What do I say to the person who might ask, “Why this book?”  “Why should I spend time with the virtues?” “What if I like my life just as it is, and I don’t want to or can’t change it anyway?” The apostle Paul writes to a large group of friends in the book of Romans. In his greetings and final instructions, he writes (16:19b) “I want you to become scholars of all that is good and beautiful…” The Virtues are that which is “good and beautiful.” You were made to have a good and beautiful life, if you choose it, if you choose to go after it. My hope is that this book will assist you in that endeavor.

June 25, 2021

Author’s note: There are other names we might use in place of “virtues:” Values, principles, guidelines…or, “Fruit of the Spirit.” 

I like to think of the virtues in this book as fruits of the Spirit. Love is the sweetness in fruit, it gives fruit it’s flavor and fragrance… love gives each of the virtues in this book “flavor and fragrance.”

There are varying degrees of size, flavor and sweetness to fruit.  No two pieces of fruit are exactly the same. We can and do judge fruit however…say, fresh squeezed orange juice… versus the stuff in a box with added sugar that has been sitting in the fridge for a month…

May 19, 2021:

Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.

—Viktor Frankl

“It’s amazing how much of the world’s virtue comes from one little word: “Try.” Trying something for the first time often calls for bravery. “Try, try again” on the other hand, requires that sibling virtue, “perseverance.”

   —Bill Bennett, The Book of Virtues

Richard Rohr states “we are not attached to our thoughts or our knee-jerk reactions, and we can find the space we need to choose the way we want to act or the words that would be most helpful. While he is not known as a teacher of contemplation, psychiatrist Viktor Frankl (1905—1997) developed this wisdom during his time as an inmate in Auschwitz. He writes:

The experiences of camp life show that humanity does have a choice of action. There were enough examples, often of a heroic nature, which proved that apathy could be overcome, irritability suppressed. Humanity can preserve a vestige of spiritual freedom, of independence of mind, even in such terrible conditions of psychic and physical stress.

We who lived in concentration camps can remember the people who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a person but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. . . .

Even though conditions such as lack of sleep, insufficient food and various mental stresses may suggest that the inmates were bound to react in certain ways, in the final analysis it becomes clear that the sort of person the prisoner became was the result of an inner decision [emphasis mine], and not the result of camp influences alone. Fundamentally, therefore, any person can, even under such circumstances, decide what shall become of them—mentally and spiritually. They may retain their human dignity even in a concentration camp. . . . It is this spiritual freedom—which cannot be taken away—that makes life meaningful and purposeful. . . .

The way in which a person accepts their fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which they take up their cross, gives them ample opportunity—even under the most difficult circumstances—to add a deeper meaning to their life. It may remain brave, dignified and unselfish. Or in the bitter fight for self-preservation they may forget their human dignity and become no more than an animal. Here lies the chance for a person either to make use of or to forgo the opportunities of attaining the moral values that a difficult situation may afford them. . . .

When we are no longer able to change a situation . . . we are challenged to change ourselves.

May 21, 2021

“The best criticism of the bad is the practice of the better”