LOVE

When I speak of love I am not speaking of some sentimental and weak response. I am speaking of that force which all of the great religions have seen as the supreme unifying principle of life. Love is somehow the key that unlocks the door which leads to ultimate reality.

Martin Luther King Jr.

If you pursue only one virtue, let it be love—the greatest, the first, and the last. All the other virtues are simply creative ways of expressing love.

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July 3, 2021

The following is a note that the Passion translation Bible includes with verse 1 of 1 Corinthians 13, the “Love chapter” of the Bible:

“The Aramaic word for love is hooba, and it is a homonym that also means “to set on fire.” It is difficult to fully express the meaning of this word and translate it into English. You could say the Aramaic concept is “burning love” or “fiery love,” coming from the inner depths of the heart as an eternal energy, an active power of bonding hearts and lives in secure relationships.”

June 17, 2021

Warren Buffett’s advice for success:

The road to success comes from the daily habits we practice over and over again with rigor and determination. Some of it is counter-intuitive in the harsh, transactional business world where the takers greatly outnumber the givers. To Buffett, it’s what he has advised us to do for years because it has worked for him. Here are three to consider:

1. Invest in yourself

“By far the best investment you can make is in yourself.”

This may be the most valuable of all lessons from the Oracle of Omaha. To make the most of your investment means never stop acquiring knowledge — the kind of knowledge that betters yourself as a whole person, not just as an investor.

According to Buffett, one of the keys to your success is to go to bed a little smarter each day. By investing in yourself, like honing your communication skills, Buffett says you will “become worth 50 percent more than you are now.”

2. Measure your success by your ‘inner scorecard’

When setting the bar for your own goals, don’t fall for the trap of measuring it by other people’s measure of success. Instead of trying to keep up with the Joneses, measure yourself by one of Buffett’s most famous rules — your “inner scorecard”– which defines your own standards and not what the world imposes on you. 

The inner scorecard, a principle he learned from his father, comes from deep within and speaks your truth. It gives meaning to who you are, and how you naturally behave and see the world on the basis of your values and beliefs, not someone else’s. In short, it’s taking the higher road to achieve success because it comes from the heart. 

3. Your life’s success should be defined by one four-letter word

Love.

In the Buffett biography, The Snowball: Warren Buffett and the Business of Life, Buffett explains that the highest measure of success in life comes “by how many of the people you want to have love you actually do love you.”

You can die with the biggest bank account and the most toys, but if you haven’t left a legacy of good stewardship of your wealth and resources, “the truth is that nobody in the world loves them,” says Buffett. In the end, the ultimate test of how you’ve lived your life basically comes down to how far down to how far and wide your love was spread to impact the lives of others.

“The trouble with love is that you can’t buy it. You can buy sex. You can buy testimonial dinners. But the only way to get love is to be lovable. You’d like to think you could write a check: I’ll buy a million dollars’ worth of love. But it doesn’t work that way. The more you give love away, the more you get,” asserts Buffett.

 

Lennon & McCartney:

“All you need is love, love is all you need…”

“And in the end, the love you take, is equal to the love you make…”